Friday, 22 February 2008

Is he or isn't he?

Dan has 'phoned this morning. Lovely to hear from her as always. She tells me she might have got a new boyfriend. I didn't really understand that - you either have or you haven't! There really can't be any might about it, can there? At what point in a new 'friendship' do you know if it's a new boyfriend or not a new boyfriend? It is after a kiss, a cuddle, or what? (don't answer that). In modern relationships who decides that you are now officially boyfriend and girlfriend? It's such a long time since I had one I have no idea how it all works these days. Please let me know what readers think!

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  1. My courting days are also a long time ago, but I seem to remember that you shag on the 1st date/meeting to see if he's worth pursuing, then no one mentions boyfriend/girlfriend for a couple of weeks, then if you're still calling each other after that, you're officially an item!

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  2. My courting days are also a long time ago, but I seem to remember that you shag on the 1st date/meeting to see if he's worth pursuing, then no one mentions boyfriend/girlfriend for a couple of weeks, then if you're still calling each other after that, you're officially an item!

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  3. LOL. If you think that Victoria is joking she is not. I can vouch for it. :-)

    As far as Danielle is concerned, I would guess she has been rattling this fella and she is waiting to see if he calls.

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  4. LOL. If you think that Victoria is joking she is not. I can vouch for it. :-)

    As far as Danielle is concerned, I would guess she has been rattling this fella and she is waiting to see if he calls.

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