Dan has 'phoned this morning. Lovely to hear from her as always. She tells me she might have got a new boyfriend. I didn't really understand that - you either have or you haven't! There really can't be any might about it, can there? At what point in a new 'friendship' do you know if it's a new boyfriend or not a new boyfriend? It is after a kiss, a cuddle, or what? (don't answer that). In modern relationships who decides that you are now officially boyfriend and girlfriend? It's such a long time since I had one I have no idea how it all works these days. Please let me know what readers think!